Friday, November 19, 2010

I Got a Brand New Attitude and I'm Wearin It Tonight

"It's not how many times you fall down, but how many times you get back up."
Well, life knocked me on my you know what again. But, here I am, back up on my feet once more. But really all life is is the ups and downs. The plateaus are no better than the valleys or the peaks. I am renewing my determination once more. I got my hair done how I've wanted for a while now and feel the changes working their way through me. My foot is healing so I will be exercising again (it was never a valid excuse). The weather is gorgeous so I will just have to take the dog walking in the mornings before work. Or walk on days I don't work (which is so many at this point)and find inside exercises on the days I do. I have let myself slide into not a depression, but rather a numb state. I don't want to be numb. I want to enjoy life, no matter what activities may be involved or not. So I'm starting over once more :) But for now, I'm going to bed.

Have a super, fantastic, great day.
Mandiy

Monday, November 8, 2010

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So you wanna know how life is. Why it’s just eh?
I don’t go in our bedroom unless I have to get something (like clothes). I put all the pictures of us that are left and all the box stuff I’d gotten for you in your room and the door stays locked. I sleep on the futon, every single night with the TV on (usually Friends. I’ve watched the whole series twice in the past month) until I can fall asleep. I hear my phone and it breaks my heart that it’s not you changing your mind. That useless stuff I bought, I bought a new blanket because I can’t use anything we used together. Our bed has been made up for over a month. I can’t sleep with the dog or the cow for the first time in years. I put up a brand new Christmas tree two days ago. I love the tinsel and the lights but it’s all tainted because I just keep thinking you might be sleeping with someone else on my birthday or on Christmas. I took three weeks off school. Not intentionally but I needed a week break and my next class to take wasn’t offered for a while. I didn’t mind it. I fall more in love with Kisa every day. She stays close to me for once. I talk to anyone and everyone. Not about us. I made some wife friends when you left and I just keep motivating them because it’s the only thing to keep me upbeat. I can’t listen to the same music. It makes me feel sick. I miss Tom DeLonge… I don’t let myself get sad. It hurts too much and leads to feeling sick, too. I stay mad or indifferent. I got two new tattoos and my cartilage is pierced again (3 in the left, 1 in the right). This also makes it difficult to sleep. I tell myself this is better. I’ll be better off. But I don’t always believe it. I’ll never kiss you again. I’ll never hold your hand or lay in bed with you. I wonder where you are all the time. I miss who I wanted you to be. I miss the innocence and being able to trust. My heart is broken. That’s why it’s not going great like yours.